Winter Break Is My Absolute Favorite!
I Love the Lazy Days, Long Conversations, Sleep in Mornings, and all the Memories made. As much I look Forward to the Long-Awaited Winter Break. I also Dread the Day that I must return to the Hustle and Bustle of my Everyday Life.
In Preparation for knowing the Struggles, I feel just about every year when Winter Break comes to an End. I have Created a Tried and True List of Five Tips to Follow up after Enjoying a Wonderful Winter Break. These Tips are a Great Way to Ease just about anyone back into their everyday lives.
I am a Huge Fan of To-Do Lists. In all Honesty, on a Daily Bases, I like to write down all the Activities/Chores that I Accomplished that Day. This way I can Physically see how Productive or Unproductive I was. I Find this to be just as Strong a Motivator as a To-Do List is. However, the Beneficial Aspects of Creating A To-Do List is that you can give yourself the Proper amount of Time to Complete Each Activity before Break Ends. This also Allows you to set up your activities in the most Time Efficient way possible because when it comes to the ending hours of Winter Break, every moment counts. An Added Bonus to Creating and Following a To-Do List in the ending days of Break is that you can mentally prepare yourself for the Daily Routine Changes that will occur.
One of the First things on your to-do list should be
We had an Amazing Christmas Celebration in our home this year, as I Hope you did. The Holidays and Christmas bring Christmas Gifts from Our Loved Ones. Which Translates to Inviting More stuff to Fill up your Living Space. Therefore, before you Jump Back into Your Regular Routine, Try to Take Time to Declutter.
*Decluttering is known to have many Health Benefits!
Such Include Sounder Sleep, Reducing Stress,
and/or Helping Reduce Anxiety Levels.
While You Are Decluttering, You Might as Well put in a Little More Effort and Organize.
Reorganizing Allows you time to Leisure Around, Take Stock in what you have, and To Place things in Easy to Find Locations. No more Searching around the Closet for your Favorite Belt because you now know Exactly where it is. I know that I am not the Only Person Who Absolutely Loves the Feeling of Instantly Finding the thing that you want.
It’s Hard to Say Goodbye to Old Friends and Family. Expect the Let Down or Goodbye Blues to Come Over You. As you Pack Away the Christmas Decorations and Say Goodbye to Family and Friends. This is a Hard Feeling to Battle and One that You can not really Avoid. However, if you Prepare Yourself, you will hopefully be able to Bounce Back Faster and Functionally Return to Your Everyday Life.
CREATE NEW GOALS FOR THE MONTH
Create New Goals for The Month. Not New Year's Resolutions. Just a Few Simple and Attainable Goals You Want to Accomplish for the Month. This will give you something To Look Forward To and something To Work Towards. Now once you have this Set of Goals. Do Not Go and Hide your Paper where you Can't See It. Leave it somewhere where it Catches Your Eye At least Once a Day. This way you have that Subtle Reminder that You Have Goals You Want To Accomplish.
All in All ThavinMarcob's Tips For Recovering from Winter Break are about Going Slow. It's about Preparing Yourself for the Upcoming Change. Reconnecting with Co-Workers and Friends after a Long Absence. It's about Establishing New Routines and it's about Welcoming a New Year.
A Year Full of Possibilities, A Year where You Can Accomplish Anything You Want To. It's Your Year to Shine!
Go Ahead, Don't Hold Back, because You Got This!
Maintaining Boundaries at Family Get togethers
We may dress to the nines and head out to family gatherings but we are all united in the dread that we experience in some deep, dark corner of beings when we anticipate meeting a relative – or worse, plural. It is not because we are bad people or lack affection. It is because the breach of boundaries we do not even realize it is happening per millisecond we spend in their presence. Perhaps it is because family seems to take upon itself the exclusive privilege of tearing people apart without remorse, be it love life, employment, important life milestones, health, or physical form. However it is time we take back our boundaries and self-esteem.
Defining clear boundaries, as any relationship counselor/article worth their salt will tell you, is most essential when it comes to maintaining relationships that are not taxing, but affectionate, as relationships have the initial aim to be. Let us take a look at how these popularly encouraged boundaries can actually be set into place.
Be an Example
One person we might not point fingers at is ourselves. Whether it is a teenager we keep pestering about their GPAs, or an aunt whose love life we find deliciously scandalous, we may begin by setting out the tone for the questions that we are asked. It is undeniably saucy, as the cool kids will call it, to know all the gruesome details about somebody’s skeletons, but will we want it travelling the room and coming back to us? Which is why we should start out by limiting questions we ask to topics we know people will be comfortable talking about – and hope the favor will eventually be returned to us.
Keep the Positivity Running
A common but cheap tactic we find ourselves employing in uneasy social gatherings is exclaiming your misfortune when the narrative turns to negative self-talk. We may bring up our troubles and woes, casual or pertinent, to gel in with people and earn easy empathy points. After all, it is so much easier to spend the evening with someone when all you have to do is empathize with their low points in life and have them validate yours. This needs to change – lead with a positive narrative. Counter conversations going down the self-deprecation or self-pity lane with silver linings. Not only will it set out a reflexive response system in your mind to counter negativity with optimism, but also it will make people wary of dumping their burdens on you for validation.
Let us be honest and accept the times we have prepared ourselves for family gatherings by making a list of topics and statements never to make. I do not blame you, it is a safety measure. You avoid the unnecessary, unwelcomed judgment and your family remembers you by the socially acceptable qualities you choose to show. As bold as this boundary may seem, it is an important one to draw. Go all out and be yourself so that your family knows what they have got on their hands. The reason why family gatherings drain us is because we are constantly maintaining a censored, edited version of ourselves that is trying to appease to everyone, which never works. Next time at a family gathering, to whatever extent, try showing your authentic self to the people you interact with – either you will be let go off family obligations or you will score a modicum of acceptance.
The first step to healthy and happy family gatherings is accepting that boundaries are essential, and family is no exception to that rule.
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When I first opened up our location in La Conner Washington I was Unaware that Retail Radio was a thing. I really thought I could play my Spotify and spend my days dancing to my songs list.
Nope, this is Not true. You Can Not Do This.
The first Retail Radio service we used had songs that were so old I think I was still a twinkle in my mothers eye when they came out. Our second Retail Radio however was is a winner!
I truly do love the Retail Radio stations we have at the store, but I do find that sometimes I have to explain to our customers that I don't necessarily get to pick the music that's playing. I can pick a genera but I can't pick the songs.
Which is why I'm so excited to share my Personal Christmas Eve Spotify playlist with you guys!!
All I want for Christmas is you by Mariah Carey
Jingle Bell rock by Anita Kerr singers
It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas by Michael Bublé
White Christmas by Bing Crosby
A Holly Jolly Christmas by Burl Ives
Do they know it’s Christmas by band aid
Christmas (baby please come home) by Darlene love
Santa Claus is coming to town by Bruce Springsteen
Happy Xmas by John Lennon
Mistletoe by Justin Bieber
Let it snow let it snow let it snow by Frank Sinatra
Santa tell me by Ariana Grande
Santa baby by Eartha Kitt
What Christmas means to me by Stevie wonder
Please come home for Christmas by the eagles
Holly Jolly Christmas by Michael Bublé
Joy to the world by Nat King Cole
Deck the hall by Nat King Cole
I want to hippopotamus for Christmas by Gayla Peevey
Believe by Josh Gordon
Mistletoe and holly by Frank Sinatra
Mary did you know by Pentatonix
Shake up Christmas by train
The Christmas shoes by Newsong
That’s Christmas to me by Pentatonix
Angels we have heard on high by Josh Gorban
Snow in California by Ariana Grande
Christmas time by Bryan Adams
A New York Christmas by Rob Thomas
Cuddle up by Catey Shaw
Christmas all over again by Tom Petty
Santa is coming for us by Sia
You make me feel like Christmas by Gwen Stefani and Blake Shelton
Snowman by Sia
All my Christmases by Julian Edwards
Our Christmas Eve
On Christmas Eve we play a lot of games.
I will share a few of our favs with you guys on another post, but playing Christmas music in the background is a major must for my family. It brings a warm welcoming feel to our get-together.
I would love to hear your Christmas/Holiday Playlists.
Feel Free to Share it with us
OR Share Your Top Favorite Christmas Song!
Have a Wonderful Christmas and a Happy Holiday!
Happy Winter Solstice Everyone!
Can you believe Winter is already here.
Not to mention Christmas is just a few days away.
I’m definitely feeling like it is time
to commence the Winter Adventures.
We are Celebrating the New Season
with a Bottle of Wine and Each Other’s Company.
While we enjoy our Winter Wine. I thought it was the Perfect Time to share a few Winter Solstice Facts.
Floral, Light Pink Joggers.
Perfectly Comfortable and Perfect with Slippers or your Favorite Pair of Sneakers.
This Floral Print Pants Features an Elasticized Waist with a Drawstring Tie,
Side Pockets, and Elasticized Cuffs.
These Pants are Made With Medium Weight French Terry Fabric.
They Are Also
*Made In The USA
These Amazing Knitted Sweats are Big Sellers and For Big Reason!
These Supper Soft and Comfortable Thick Gray Cable Knit Lounge Bottoms are Simply Amazingly to Slip Into for that good Read, Cuddle Time, or just to Lounge In.
These Cable Knit Pajama Pants have a Drawstring Waistband
Are you a Star Gazer!
These are the Perfect Fit for All the Astronomers in Your Life.
I'm going to Plan the Perfect Night for You.
Gift that Special Someone with a Pair of these Star Joggers. Have a Hot Thermos of Hot Coco Waiting. Then Sit among the Starts with Friends or with that Special Someone.
This Bracelet Listed to the Left is sure to Wow anyone Sets Eyes On It.
This Beautiful Bracelet is 7.25" 14/20 Gold Filled Hand Woven Band with 32mm Center Ancient Roman Glass. This Breath Taking Bracelet also has a Slide Tube Magnetic Clasp. Which is an Added Bonus because you can Easily put it on by yourself.
Note that Ancient Roman Glass Coloring Will Vary.
Comes with Certificate of Authenticity
These Gold Plated Earrings Listed to the Right are Adorable and Trendy!
These Darling Earrings are 14 Karat Gold Plated Sterling silver Bar Post Back Stud Earrings. The Bar is 1.8mm Thick and Measures Approximately
3mm x 13mm.
They are .925 Sterling Silver
Did I mention that there are only $35.99
We All Love to Sparkle when On The Town or For Our Dinner Date!
This Dress is sure to WOW!
It is a Belted Cherry Red Lace Dress that Speaks Volumes. Sparkle All Night Long in Our Fabulous Cherry Red Belted 3/4 Sleeve Lace Dress 100% Nylon
These Immaculate Totes are Handcrafted In India. The Totes are not only High Quality Bags they are also Trendy, Useful for the Everyday, The Perfect Gift
The Super Soft Canvas Totes are Elegantly Stitched Together Creating a Wonderful Master Piece.
Due to the Fact that these are Handmade, No Two Will Look Exactly Alike.
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I Love Items that are Handcrafted. I think that each is its Own Master Piece Crafted with Something Special Each Time.
These Exceptional Tassel Earrings are a Statement Piece. They are True Works of Art. Each one is HandMade by an Artist in Denmark.
Bonus They are ON SALE for $10.00 OFF!
Hurry Supplies are Limited!
This Amazingly Cozy Crew Neck is One of Our New Arrivals. The Image of the Rabbit Ridding a Bike is Hands Down Adorable. This Sweater also Pairs Great with Anything.
It is the Perfect Gift For Anyone of Any Age!
Pick It Up Today and Give that Special Someone
The Best Gift This Holiday Season!
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Always Growing is our motto!
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