We have all scrolled through those quotes preaching about how precious your sparkle is. We read about how we need to stand strong and not let others dull it, take it, or damage it. Let's face it no matter beautifully written the quote is, keeping your sparkle shining and glittering all day is rough. We all go through and encounter different things that require various levels of patience, level-headedness, and acceptance. Maintaining that glimmer on a day to day basis takes confident determination that I know you have. No one is perfect, and no one is exempt from needing a little help every now and again. While I'm not a pro at preserving my luminous twinkle every second of every day, I do believe I have a few good tips and tricks to help keep that fiery glow alive even during a mid-week slump.
Keep That Shit Safe
You have to be proactive about your sparkle. The world will eat you up, spit you out, stomp on you and then start the process all over again. Life is rough; every day is rough. It's life. Therefore it's your responsibility to keep your sparkle safe. To keep it lite up. Brighten up the room baby, because you control your sparkle. Don't allow others the power to control your sparkle; save that for yourself.
A Room Full Of Sparkle
Fill your world with those who sparkle just as bright as you do. Find those who value the sparkle within you and themselves. Those are the people who will hold you up when your sparkle is tired. Those are the people who will help you protect your sparkle. Those are the ones who will love you now and always.
Extraordinary VS Ordinary
Does your sparkle need a little boost?
We have the answer right, its time to open our eyes wide. To take stock and see what there is to see. We need fresh eyes, and our sparkle is demanding it. Its time to see the extraordinary of the every day instead of the ordinary. It's a mindset, yes, but one you have within you. So fuck it, take stock, and love the fuck out of your life!
Fuck The Haters
Hand to God, there are those out in this world that will do all they can to steal or dull your sparkle. BE AWARE of them. Don't let them in, block those fuckers, put them on mute, walk away, no run in the other direction. Be aware of things, people, and situations that will attempt to steal the sparkle within you. You don't have to let them near you, keep them at bay and guard your sparkle.
Acknowledge The Blessings
Yes, I know it sounds like the newest trendy hashtag.
Acknowledge your blessings
But it's not, it's the truth that we all need to hear. Acknowledge what you have, focus on the good. Work for what you don't have, strive for more or better or at least move towards whatever it is you feel like your lacking. But don't focus on what is missing, don't focus on what you don't have.
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